As singles, we all look forward to the day we will say "I do" to the one we love with all our heart and soul.
As sweet as marriage may seem, it requires a lot of hard work and dedication to keep it strong and make it last 'forever'.
If you've found 'The One' and you two are already planning to tie the knot, there are certain things you need to understand before making that bold step. I am not married, but, I find this advises very good that I beg you not to ignore them.
Check them out below:
1. There is no point planning marriage with somebody who always antagonizes you. It's a trap
2. If you feel lonely while in the relationship, talk about it with your partner before you say I do. Being lonely in a marriage is suicidal.
3. You can judge how the person loves you and is honest by the way he is treating you during the misunderstandings.
4. Love is a verb, not a noun.
5. Never settle down with a person who already lost all the passion and love for you and is ready to start a life together just because you’ve been long time together…Know when to walk away.
6. Only love is not enough to be in a marriage.
7. There is no perfect marriage, there are going to be conflicts and fights. But what matters is the wish to solve them together.
8. During the argument, fight the problem and not the partner. One of the biggest mistakes most couples do – they start to fight each other and the problem stays where it was.
9. When you choose a girl whom you are going to be with, don’t look for one you wish to treat as a princess, find one you want to be your partner instead.
10. Never disparage your partner behind his or her back. It is not fair and very low.
11. Confidence isn’t “I know she likes me”, confidence is “I’ll be okay whether she likes me or not.”
12. Love is all about working on it. Nobody is perfect for each other from the first day.
13. Keeping relationship warm doesn’t mean you have to set yourself on fire.
14. Marry that person who makes you feel the same way when you see food finally coming to your table in the restaurant when you are hungry.
15.The grass is not greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.
16. Instead of looking for a right person, start being that Right person.
17. The control in relationship belongs to a person who cares less, unfortunately.
18. What is better? To be always right or just happy?
19. Don’t be shy to be the first one to apologize after the fight, it is not about who is the first but the time to make up.
20. If you don’t love yourself, don’t expect your partner to love you.
21. Just because you have a perfect friend relationship with a person it doesn’t mean in love relationship it is going to be the same.
22. Before saying YES, try to spend time with the person, it will give you the best vision of how it is going to be to live under the same roof.
24. Keep in mind to focus on the problem during the fight, and not your partner.
25. If your partner doesn’t love you the way you expect, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you at all. It is just his or her way to show the feelings.
26. Fall in love with the person whom you see now, and not the potential.
27. To be happy in a marriage, it takes two people to work.
28. Everybody makes mistakes and there is a place for a second chance.
29. Everyone is searching for the perfect person, but no one is trying to be the perfect person.
30. If something gets broken fix it, but keep in mind that if you spend most of your time fixing and it costs you every time more and more, toss it and look for new one.
31. Try to be a woman or a man your child would love to date.
32. Love is all about appreciation, and not possession.
33. Never go to bed angry. Fix the problem before you put your head on the pillow.
34. If she or he threatens to leave you, help to pack the bags.
35. There is no place to lies or secrets in a marriage.
36. A relationship shouldn’t be hard, if they are, most likely you are with a wrong person.
37. Love is not just a feeling, as they tend to fade. Love – is something you choose.
38. If it feels wrong in the beginning, it won’t get any better later.
39. Love is an action, not a feeling. It’s learned and developed skill, not an experience. Not that the romantic feeling doesn’t exist or isn’t a wonderful part of the relationship, but it doesn’t make it last.
40. The best sign of healthy relationship is no sign in any of the social nets.
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